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Meet Bill and Bob–Friends for Life
 Adult
match of 17 years developed friendship through time and trust.
Bill and Bob
Seventeen years ago, Bill was missing consistency in his life.
Schizophrenia had left him in and out of the hospital and had hindered
him from maintaining a job and friendships.
Seventeen years ago, Bob had consistency in his life. He had been a
part of the same church and bowled in leagues for more than 40 years. He
wanted something more to do with his spare time as he transitioned into
retirement.
A United Way-funded program–Compeer for Adults at the Mental Health
Association of South Central Kansas–was the answer they were both
looking for.
An answer
The mission of the Compeer program is to address the isolation and
loneliness experienced by children and adults with mental-health
challenges, using volunteers in supportive friendships.
After being matched and meeting for the first time, it was apparent
to them their friendship would work.
Activities
Bob and Bill quickly found common interests. They both like bowling
and are concerned with personal health and fitness. They go bowling and
eat lunch together once a week and occasionally catch a ball game.
Obstacles
Bill has dealt with numerous challenges throughout his life. He has
faced paranoia and delusions and has been hospitalized numerous times
with schizophrenia.
At one point in their relationship, he was also diagnosed with
leukemia and was in and out of the hospital for treatment. During these
times, he says Bob was one of the few people to see him in the hospital.
"Bob was the only one besides my parents to visit me, and at times I
was in pretty bad shape."
Trust
Over time their relationship has grown. What started out as a
friendship based on weekly activities has developed into a relationship
based on unconditional love and trust.
"We have become real buddies over the past 17 years, and I know I can
count on Bob," said Bill.
2006 Outstanding Adult Match
The pairing that has resulted in the friendship between Bob and Bill
is the longest continual match in the local Compeer program. This year
they were recognized internationally as the 2006 Outstanding Adult
Match.
"We are proud to the longest continuous match in the Wichita
program," said Bob.
Acceptance
Bill feels accepted and appreciated through his relationship with
Bob. Thanks to United Way and its funding of the Compeer program, more
and more people with mental disabilities are receiving the same kind of
acceptance and friendships.
Article by Jonathan Flesher
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Fostering Health & Independence
Issue: Children and adults in the community
with mental-health challenges.
United Way Actions: United Way funds the
Compeer program at the Mental Health Association, which pairs volunteers
with people facing those challenges.
Results: Children and adults in the Compeer
program make valuable friendships that bring acceptance and trust into
their lives.
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